So just this Christmas, my girlfriend for 4 years broke up with me. I was devastated. I really though she was the one.
She told me there were no more "intense feelings". When asked why, she says she can't explain why it happened. I also asked if she still has feelings for me in general she says "yes". Things like this doesn't just happen. I know she still loves me, and we're just overcame by stress because we're so busy. Also, it is possible that the constant fighting this year triggered the "thinking" process that led to the break up.
We talked in her house, asked her everything. We agreed to stay friends. However, we cuddled and kissed like we're still together. And whenever I asked if I could go so that she can sleep (she did not have enough sleep because it was Christmas), she'd give me a look that's so familiar and tell me not to go because she wants me there. It's so confusing.
I don't know what to do. I want her back while it's still fresh. I just don't know what to do and where to start. If she really doesn't feel anything for me anymore, I'll try to win her back since we're still friends and we still chat a little bit. But now I want her to think that we're perfect for each other because we really are. We had a lot of great moments, and I want to continue making more with her.
I need help. I don't know what to do anymore.